Love Closes the Gap of Social Distancing

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She clutches a balled-up tissue, staring out of the window at the empty visitors parking lot. A tear slips down her cheek.

No visitors allowed for…how long did they say? Did they mean family? I can’t remember. Will Julie bring my jellybeans and bananas and a new magazine? I’ve already read the last one. What if I run out of medicine?

How many elderly folks confined in facilities or in their homes experience loneliness, fear, and isolation while the country practices social distancing? Do they understand the current news or are they confused about why no one is coming?

Others, not so elderly, stay confined due to health concerns or fear of being in public. My heart aches for all of them.

Yet, what can we do when visits are prohibited or limited in some cases? As Christians, what responsibilities and privileges do we have in this dilemma?

Let’s look to Scripture for answers.

And this is his commandment, that we believe in the name of his Son Jesus Christ and love one another, just as he has commanded us.

1 John 3:23

And the King will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.’ 

Matthew 25:35   

How joyous our hearts will be when we reach out to those who need love and assurance! God will receive glory when we minister to others in His name.

Consider the list below for ways we can extend love while being safe during this period of social distancing. I hope you’ll add to the list in Comments.

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Loving One Another During Social Distancing

  • Call.

Make a telephone call. Hearing a human voice will add cheer to the day. Tell the person when you plan to call back and ask the best time of day.

  • Shop.

Call before you shop or order to determine if you can select items for someone who cannot go to stores. Add a card or treat to their bag.

  • Visit through the window.

As some are doing, call from outside of the window so the dear one you’re visiting can see you while you chat. Seeing a loved one or friend is soothing to a troubled heart. If you can’t visit in person, use FaceTime if the other person is able.

  • Write a letter.

Mail a card or handwritten note. Some of us maintain connections via social media, but some elderly or ill people cannot manage the technology.

  • Send artwork.

Mail children’s artwork, scribbles, or letters. Tuck pictures of the children in the envelope.

  • Mail a cheer-up package.

Mail or drop-off a cheer-up package. You might include a small tube of hand cream, family photos, a magazine, a large print devotional book, or candy and cookies treats. (Check dietary limitations first.)

  • Send flowers.

Have flowers delivered or drop off a bouquet from your yard if possible.

  • Ship a music CD.

If the person has access to a CD player, mail or ship a CD of hymns.

  • Share Bible verses.

Design simple cards with Bible verses that offer comfort and the joy of the Lord. You could punch holes in them and add a ring or twist tie to hold them together. This is a perfect time to remind Christians of the Lord’s presence. It’s also an opportune time to share His love with those who don’t know Him yet as Savior.

  • Illustrate and frame a verse.

If you aren’t artistic, choose an image from Pixabay or other sites that offer free pictures. Print the verse on or near the picture and place it in a frame.

How can you close the gap of social distancing for someone who is lonely or fearful by sharing the love of Jesus? Please, please, please share ideas in comments below. We can all check back during the week as the list grows.

Love one another.

Bible verses are taken from the ESV.

32 thoughts on “Love Closes the Gap of Social Distancing

  1. Amen Ms. Jeannie. There are so many ways we can show we care. While the physical act of touching someone can help impart many feelings and dissuade many fears, we can also endeavor to “touch their hearts” by showing we care in other ways. I love each of these examples ma’am. Thank you for today’s blessing.

  2. I love this reminder, Jeannie. I will begin implementing some of these immediately!

  3. You have already covered my ideas, Jeannie! Thanks for putting it all together for me. May we be fearless, but careful and sensitive during this time of social distancing to not leave anyone truly alone.

  4. Beautiful Jeannie. This morning I prayed with a group via a conference call. Thanks for placing these ideas at our fingertips.

  5. Jimmie Annette Ballard

    Thank you again for great ideas. Always such a blessing.

  6. Jeannie, your article mirrors your sweet heart. Thank you for those wonderful suggestions, sweet cousin!

  7. Thank you for your tips, Jeannie. Your compassion for others shows through your writing. This is a great post to help us know how we can help others.

  8. What great ways to spread hope and cheer to someone who is lonely. Thank you for reminding us we need to remember those who cannot go out and who need extra help.

  9. Barbara, I’m glad you found the post helpful. I love seeing social media pictures of loved ones visiting facilities by standing outside of the window while they chat via phone.

  10. These are wonderful ideas, Jeannie. Thank you for sharing. Although it seems really obvious, for those on social media, we can send private messages via Facebook or other means. It isn’t as personal, and certainly doesn’t replace a loving card, but can still provide a bright spot of sunshine. In times such as these, technology is a blessing.

    • Post Author Jeannie Waters

      I agree, Katherine. A simple “Hi. Just checking on you” message can be encouraging. You’re right–a bright spot of sunshine.

  11. Oh, my friend. These are such encouraging words and ideas for such a time as this. Surely God is gaining glory from this and you are loving and serving us, too.
    Thank you and AMEN!

    • Post Author Jeannie Waters

      Thank you for commenting, Lisa. We all need encouragement, and with the current situation we have the privilege of serving others in many ways.

  12. Oh sweet friend, you have covered anything I can think of. You are certainly one of God’s most precious children with such a loving heart. He always places the most encouraging words in that heart of yours. I am so uplifted with what He conveys through you. To God be the glory!!! Thank you for blessing us all.

  13. Thanks for the creative ideas of how to reach out and love on others during this odd season.

  14. This is so necessary with such a loss of our usual connections. We have to be vigilant to find new ways to keep up with one another.

    • Post Author Jeannie Waters

      I agree. I like your use of the word vigilant in this context. God sometimes puts people on our heart so that we can meet needs.

  15. Loved it. I shared it on Twitter and Facebook.

  16. Simple and doable. I am going to have a card making session with the kids tomorrow.

    • Post Author Jeannie Waters

      Karisa, that’s a great idea to include your kids. Leave us a comment about how it works out. I’m sure recipients will be blessed.

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